Why is it that people will claim someone as a friend, yet never talk to that friend unless they want something? I have noticed that in my life, and my mother’s life. So many people claimed her as a friend, yet she never got phone calls or visits, and I still come across people that claim to have loved her or been friends with her, yet they didn’t know she died in 2007.
I have people that claim me as a friend, but I don’t claim them. Why? Because I see the same pattern. I try to do things to help them, but it’s not returned. I don’t have friends, as far as I’m concerned. No one calls or visits. I invite people that don’t come, and I’m never invited anywhere, and when I am, I get the vibe that they were forced to invite me.
So don’t ask why I don’t have a social life. It’s because I am apparently not someone anyone wants to hang out with.